Acknowledgment

 

12/30/24 Aegis Living residents

One thing Theodore tries to do during his gratitude talks is acknowledge or express appreciation for each individual resident, even in the smallest way: Complimenting the color of an accessory; noticing a smile; relating to a comment the resident had made the day before. If he has nothing specific to say about them, he expresses appreciation for their presence.

As Greg and I listened, I tried to do the same with my sketches. Although I didn’t write many comments, I mentally noted whatever I knew about them. I already knew most of their names, but when I didn’t, I paid attention to Theodore, because he always acknowledges everyone by name.

In our culture and lifestyle, it seems normal and even sometimes necessary to ignore most strangers we encounter just to get through the day. I do it most of the time – except when I draw. Whether they are of random strangers on public transportation or not-at-all random people like Greg’s co-residents, I want my small life portraits to be intentional and with silent acknowledgement, even if they take only a few minutes. Bob, Jean, Sue, Jamie, Connie – thank you for being here for me to draw.