Several months ago when I was trying to figure out my game plan for downsizing, I had solid reasons to trade our traditional, two-story
house for a small condo. The primary one was to cut the square footage in half –
less space to heat and cool, less stuff to eventually move to a retirement community,
overall less. I also wanted to reduce the wear and tear on my body (and
the risk of falling) by eliminating or reducing the number of staircases I use
daily. The yardwork was something I had never been interested in, and the relentless
maintenance tasks for a centenarian house were burdensome. (I also mistakenly
thought that by buying a condo, I could get half the house for about half the
price – what a misperception!)
A real estate agent helped me find some condos within my criteria, but none made me even want to go inside to look. I would walk around the buildings, try to imagine the sketching possibilities from the windows, and cross them off my list. And then I would think about the shady, private backyard deck that I enjoy every year from May through September, having meals and feeding jays (not to mention sketching). This past summer, my first without the spouse guy at home, it was comforting to recall all the time we enjoyed out there together, especially during the pandemic. If I moved, I would miss that deck dearly.
Now that I’ve made the decision to stay put and downsize within, my appreciation for all I’ve loved about this house has increased. High on my love list is that I can see and sketch sky colors of both sunrise and sunset without getting out of my jammies. The weeks around the equinoxes are especially convenient – the sun comes up and goes down within sketchable waking hours.
Thank you, old Maple Leaf house, for all you continue to give me every day (and that I hope to enjoy for many years yet). I will not take you for granted.
Thank you! I'm relieved and happy, too!
ReplyDeleteAs you see, I am behind in reading your blog. This post filled me with angst (and I had to laugh at the thought that you would get a condo at half the price- so early 2K!) and relief at the end. Even though I only have 5 steps from each porch, I have fallen badly on them twice in the past year. And 1400sf is twice the house I can keep up with on my own. But, every time I consider alternatives, I think of my (postage stamp) yard and all the birds, insects, flowers, the sound of wind in the trees. I can't get that at any other options. But, I could downsize...sewing machines ? Pens and pencils? (Gasp!) Anne HwH
ReplyDeleteI think the downsizing/unjunking dilemma is common for many of us at this stage of life! My empathy to you as you work through it. Do be careful on those stairs, though...maybe there's a way they can be altered to be safer?
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