9/15/24 |
For several posts now, I’ve mentioned my home-improvement projects and related downsizing and unjunking efforts. Just as I’m keenly
interested in my creative/learning process and documenting it (one of the key purposes of this blog), I want to document what it takes to make
changes to a house one has lived in for nearly four decades. Although I have
taken a gazillion photos (don’t worry; I will resist showing them all here),
I’ve had the time and energy to make only a few sketch journal entries. But now
that most of Phase 1 is done, it’s a good time to show results as well as give
some back story to all of this.
A few months after Greg moved to assisted living, I found myself rattling around in “too much house.” I plan to eventually move to a retirement community, but not for a while (maybe as long as 10 years). The size of a retirement community apartment that seems right for me is about 750 to 800 square feet, so I decided I would buy a condo of about that size as a transitional step. A small condo would force me to downsize, and when I was ready to move to the retirement community, I could do so without the added burden of getting rid of so much excess stuff.
9/16/24 |
The problem with making any significant change in a house is that often one step must be preceded by others. (I had to dust off my old project management skills from my working days to think through the most efficient sequence of steps.) Our former TV/reading room was to become my bedroom. But before I could move the bedroom downstairs, I had to replace the 35-year-old carpeting in that room and the adjoining hallway (another recommendation from my real estate agent). Since the rest of the main floor already has original hardwood (now 99 years old!), it made sense to install hardwood, which I have always loved.
9/22/24 Our California king-size bed would have overwhelmed the small bedroom downstairs, so one of my few new purchases for the downsizing was to buy a smaller bed for myself. |
(I don’t want to get too thick into the home-improvement weeds here, but if you’re interested, the material I chose is actually a composite hardwood material, a Scandinavian product, that is more durable than traditional hardwood.)
I also decided it was a good time to rebuild our scary basement stairs, which were scary even when I was 30. Now that I’m definitely not 30 and have osteoporosis, they were scarier than ever. A safer stairway would enable me to continue living here longer. All of the above was Phase 1, now complete.
I’m very happy about my new plan, because the truth is, I didn’t really want to live in a condo – I still love my house and neighborhood. I just thought a smaller home would be a good way to force myself to downsize. It turns out, I already have a smaller home – and I’m excited to be moving into it a little at a time.
Phase 2 will be moving my upper-floor studio/office to the main floor and replacing the carpet with the same hardwood. I’ve saved that for last because I know that downsizing my studio will take the most time. Arrgghhh… how to decide which art materials to keep?? And what about my vintage colored pencil collection?!
In the meantime, the general unjunking continues (and will likely be a never-ending process). The junk-removal service I hired has made two visits so far, and we aren’t done with the basement yet. For the third and last haul next week, I plan to fill the truck with as much as I can from other areas of the house, too (we also have two attic spaces full of 35 years of accumulation).
9/16/24 Sketching Greg's old skates brought back fun memories of our early dating days. |
- Why wait until just before I sell the house to make improvements that I could be enjoying now while I still live here?
- Materials and labor are only getting more expensive. If I make the investment now, the payback when I eventually sell the house will hopefully make it worthwhile.
- All of this work is tough enough now at age 65. It’s damn well not going to be any easier when I’m 75. My future self is already thanking me.
After: The original, 99-year-old hardwood still looks great! |
Before: 35-year-old furniture and area rugs |
After: I forgot to take a photo of this former TV/reading room when it was still carpeted. This shows the new hardwood that replaced it. |
After: My new bedroom |
A celebration of Phase 1's completion at Macrina! |
Really impressed with all the changes that you made! I also appreciate all the work it takes to “downsize” and get rid of life’s accumulations! Will you be posting about your art supply downsizing? I love to read about your creative processing and how you are going to decide what art supplies to keep.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Yes, I will definitely be posting about my art supply downsizing process, which will be the most painful and time-consuming of all! Arrggh!
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ReplyDeleteYou’ve made great progress! Good idea to do the improvements now and enjoy them! I am in Venice and somehow screwed things up so I can’t post to my own blog from here. Hope I will be able to fix things from my computer when I am home again. Until then Fb and IG will have to do.
ReplyDeleteIf you're in Venice, then I know it must be Joan! ;-) Relax and have a wonderful time!
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ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea to "rearrange" your current home to make it more livable as a single person abode rather than buy a smaller one, and in the process get that downsizing on its way early. Who needs everything new and unfamiliar when you still like your place and especially neighborhood? Your story attached to those rollerskates exemplifies my problem with downsizing; I often say I don't have "things" but "memories". Nearly everything I own has a story not unlike the story of those skates. It's hard for me to let go of the things that trigger such sweet or funny memories. I've never lived very long in one place so multiple moves have helped with weeding out things of lesser importance and I'm finally of an age where I'm not very interested in adding to my possessions. Still, if I ever have to move to a smaller space, there will be much I'll have to give up and it won't go willingly I fear. Congrats on figuring out a game plan and getting so much accomplished.
ReplyDeleteI've been surprised how relatively painless it has been to let go of things that do trigger memories. But taking quick photos right before I discard/give them away really does the trick for me. I may not ever look at the photos again, but knowing I have the things documented makes it easy to let go of the physical things themselves. I know the photos will trigger the same memories.
DeleteI considered the photo preservation but would counter it will trigger the memory similarly but not the same. There's something about touching an actual item that is a much deeper experience for me and there are things I made my mother let go of after her stroke that I later regretted. Holding the thing was akin to holding the person that say, gave it to her, and in one case was no longer alive. I think I put her through undue emotional trauma because I was getting impatient with the process. I understand better as I've gone through my own losses. I know it sounds silly and not every memory item is a must save, but some just are for me.
DeleteIt's important not to rush the process . . . as long as we still process and not just procrastinate. ;-)
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